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- On schaven.org someone had once commented they'd be happy to read about how J got his start in business: J got his start in business with a check from a dead woman.
-Loan contract and check drafted by the probate attorney of record in Louisville, Ky for The Estate of M. Martha Alford.

- Approximately two years later a restraining order was issued against J in Charleston, SC after he was tried in absentia for a crime originating in the Colombia area violating both federal/FCC and SC state statutes.

- Another Ttwo years later, an old customer from West Colombia showed up at Starbucks giving me a heads up: J knows where you live.


- Three years after his conviction I presume J lawfully had his SC record expunge. At the time of his conviction and the subsequent issuance of a restraining order he told more than one person he would be doing precisely that.


- Ten years later following a TBI and amnesia I posted a question on schaven.org in 2008 regarding “the mysterious J…” “I’d be happy to read” was the comment that sat there for nearly a year from an unknown author. In relationship to all of this - perhaps its just a coincidence, perhaps not.


schaven.org as a site has since disappeared over the last two weeks prior to which the 6.15.10 Sometimes I really do like being wrong. It's not that I have dyslexia, but the same syllable/unit reversing stuff I had speech wise post TBI, the syllables/units can get jumbled. Except when it comes to narrative. So on the upside- I inverted some syllables- only two- which means schaven is still up but in reversed order: havensc. Which is awesome because it means no one's convering their tracks that solidly...except for the "happy to hear" no longer being the message but "like a brother". And here is the non fun of being me: that syllable flip means all my credibility's shot?

If so- so be it- but I check and double check and run cross searches regularly because - I really do my best at trying to be as accurate and as truthful as possible.  end edit


"happy to read comment" being deleted and replaced for a short time by a comment from some who identified himself as "patrick" (or perhaps more aptly pa/trick) "...he was like an older brother to me".

Following those alterations I had posed a question about classes on "woman hood" at I(man(u(el(le) church in Louisville KY in regards to the language adopted in the early to mid 1990's. Language which prompted former President Jimmy Carter to leave the denomination because of the core philosophy of male superiority domination over women edorsed by the Southern Baptist's Council, an arm of which J had found himself a happy home while he was allegedly still in SC. Having known J I wondered what his chosen church would offer his wife should the copy I read have been a quick courtship followed by an ambush style proposal. That's how I had read J's copy, having gotten to know him much more than I would have and did prefer.


After posing the question/s regarding language and core philosophy of "womanhood" I received a reply via email, perhaps coincidentally, from Mrs. J.

Perhaps not all coincidentally.


"I'd be happy to read..." Failsafe 1-10 are/will be the reply- should he decied to make good on an old promise- well obviously I've decided to leve a trail.

Supposedly J is a changed man- in which anything I could truly state would and could only be points on which to testify to that change.But so far, so far its looking like the same old J to which I'd say: if "dead puppies" are still what you think about during sex- you might to talk with someone about that. Ron Fullerton perhaps as such associations are kinda' twisted.


But before all that I used to use a phrase I picked up from Darcy Meadows at CofC "Cool Beans".
See that's what I always liked about Henry, he liked women.

Liking sex and liking us aren't the same thing.